What is wisdom?
We develop a kind of negative mindset with time, when things don't go well according to what we planned, that it becomes extremely difficult for us to accept the reality, and in turn remain completely disappointed to such an extent that it becomes nearly impossible for us to move on. This is how we tend to make our lives complicated by being rigid unnecessarily, and then end up complaining that life always being unfair to us.
Change is the law of nature. It's not necessary that your life will always follow the same road map you created in your own mind to reach your desired goal. It may take a turn which would turn your world upside down, leaving you completely clueless about the next move. In such case, you need to be a little flexible rather than being completely rigid and develop a will power strong enough to work on strategies and think of a plan again, different from what you created earlier in order to reach goal you always dreamed of. True wisdom lies in being able to accept the change and learn to adapt to it, or else be ready to be eliminated by the nature itself.
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