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But for some of us ,the problem isn't so much that we are headless to this advice ,rather than we take it far too closely and remorselessly to heart . So mindful are we of the risks of selfishness ,we run into an opposite danger : an abnegation of self ,a modesty that borders on self erasure ,an automatic impulse to give everything over to competing parties ,a shyness about pressing oneself forward and a manic inability to say 'no' or cause the slightest frustration to others.
To be continued.....
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