How can you be happy unless you find it around, in the eyes and lips of many with whom you interact, with whom you do not, people you see but don't listen to.
Why are you looking for me outside I am deep within Enduring and enjoying Your sorrows and happiness as mine Exclusively mine Feel me, touch me Nothing in-between You and me Absolutely nothing.
Think about water, air and sunlight that unconditionally nourish you. You will fall in love with God and His attributes. When love happens, it takes care of the rest, action, inaction, devotion, knowledge, dualism, non-dualism and qualified non-dualism. It will show you the way, how to go, when and where to.