She - I am breaking up with you..!! He - But why ? She - I have someone else, who unlike you, cares for me, understands me, supports me, is honest with me and above all loves me the most. He - And who is this person ? She - Its me :-) :-)
Just like gold, a man has to smolder in the heat of struggle to get refined..!! But yes, most people forget that with this heat, warmth of love, care and support is the vital ingredient that adds the shine to the soul which is beyond compare..!