Believing in God doesn’t mean you’ve a right to judge people and their choices.

Always remember god has never been a part of hatred because he is the only source of love.

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Why relationships are so easy to break in india just because of caste differences, age differences ,the biggest reason is a women with dreams, her choices and her lifestyle?
Men..if you or your family is allergic to the women who stands for her choices, or you feel inferior because of this or you think these kind of women are shameless,they can break your family, steal your son from you, or maybe your relatives has set a limit by marrying their son with 'sushil kanya' (suitable for society)..then you should stop your son for hunting hot chics for him just for rejecting her atlast, just to make her believe that she's not good enough for marriage.
Stop Fucking around!!
At the end we all are human and we all have hearts!!

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Don't marry just for love ,marry for equality, respect and healthy companionship..just say 'Yes' to second home and 'No' to sasural.
Most of the men are so bipolar, They want hot girlfriend but when it comes to marriage,they become 'bhigi billi', They forget all the things you've done for him, they can also ask you to choose between your 'choices' and 'him', they can break years of relationship just because you want to be the same after marriage, just because you want equality and respect for yourself, just because you want to live with your choices which is arrogant for him.
And they can walk away by saying i've always loved you but this is will not work now because we are so different. Because you're not to ready to be with me just for your fucking choices.!

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You are the only one who pre-decided my lifestyle, my pehnava, my work just before your parents, just to see whether i'm eligible or not? because you judged me before they did, and what about this line 'ese hi apna dekhogi to koi nhi milega, bs movies main hota hai, nobody likes these kind of girls, at least my parents should be proud when they showcase you in front of their 'relatives'(who are never satisfied).
Girls please stop learning cooking just for the sake of good treatment from your in-laws.
No..you're not marrying him just to make good food for him or for his family, nobody's changing in his family so why you would?
Can we normalise these things for once? Why everyone are forcing us just to be that person who we are not, and truly don't want to become?
we are much more than that..Fight for equality, believe in it,trust me you deserve more than this!

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i'm literally tired of men mentality, giving some of the examples from many like 'what have you done for me like my mother did for my father'
'There's something you have to sacrifice for being with me'
'You can wear whatever you want in front of me but you cannot in front of my parents'
'humare ghar main cook ke hath ka nahi khate, you have to cook at least for me'
'kaha hote hain itne cool in-laws mujhe bhi btana'
Dude, What have you done for me,except comparing my future with your mother's sacrifices and her choices,And why would i do sacrifice for being with the men who is not sure for his choices(bhaiya ko hot girlfriend chahiye par biwi hot hui to dikkat hai)and he cannot fight for his choices just to make his parents happy and gift his parents a 'domestic maid'.

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she's not even bothered about your family and you're making rule for her..who gave you this right? Just because she wants to marry you, you cannot say these nonsense things to her just to explain and fulfill your family's shitty needs, You are just helping her to love you less without giving a single thought, because you're being idiot here.
Is she saying anything to your lifestyle or interfering in your choice? No,right!
Then why you're doing this to her?
I don't know why people are so much stuck into 'sasural' and why don't they call it a second home?
Because many of them treats women like that, even worse.

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i don't know why men compare their girlfriend's /wife's efforts with their mother's sacrifices for their father..
i mean Why??
Are you searching for second mother ?
Why a marriage cannot be simple without any deal by a men and his parents that what she should wear, and what not? And a list of do's and don't s which suits their impression?
Why women with a clear choices for her dreams,her lifestyle and her passion for not giving up on her individuality makes her arrogant and selfish ?
I mean this is the least she's is doing for her and you're making her helpless just to change herself just by making deals with her?

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Be with a man who's love is much more bigger than his ego.
Be with a man who values your dream and motivate you to grab it.
Be with a man who calls you mine and really mean it.
Be with a man who stands beside you when nobody's there for you.
Be with a man who is brave enough to celebrate your success.

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Be with a man who's not afraid to be with you.
Be with a man who always push you more to be you.
Be with a man who holds you tight and keeps you high.
Be with a man who keeps your mental peace alive.

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Be with a man who is not ashamed of carrying your name.
Be with a man who is equally devoted to you.
Be with a man who treats you calmly in fights.
Be with a man who's eyes become soft whenever he sees you.

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