When you are there sitting with her make sure you are not dealing with a narcissist brat. You don't need to sit there watching her looking into her phone all the time, you don't need to sit there looking at her taking her selfies....

When you are investing your TIME in her make sure she makes you feel special in some way... And if it's only about she she & she it's better if you don't meet in first place.

It's totally useless to arrange a meeting with some one who can't appreciate your time, can't show any gratefulness towards you.

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Only hard work don't make you lucky. The correct people and place you plant yourself with relevant talent the more chance you stand to get lucky. Mere hard work is not enough. First Talent, Then right people to pay you for that and the right place to utilise your talent at is what make you lucky.

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There are 5 enemies which stop the growth of Men, which stops us from reaching our true potential. And men's 5 worst enemies are :

Alcohol
Tv
Porn
Video Games
Junk food

They kill your enthusiasm. Take away your zeal. Make you deteriorate with time.

I have seen many guys giving up in 30s and in 40s. Their zeal, enthusiasm and spunk is gone. Because they live their life so unconsciously. They never try to learn and never try to observe what's happening around. They also never try to consciously look inside. They never try to very consciously notice what all these things ; alcohol, porn and sedentary lifestyle is doing to them; their brain and body.

Focus on your finances, on your body, on your mental strength and knowledge. Throw some good, productive and creative hobbies to yourself. Just don't let yourself die while being alive.

Live, love yourself, take your care, make yourself a Man. And I am telling you it's an amazing feeling to be a Man ; A strong, capable, charming, dashing Man. And only those who are into good shape and into good frame of their mind can feel and understand the feeling ; the feeling of being A man.

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Men's prime begins when he enters his 30s. We men get into better senses, get more developed physique, glowing and more mature looking face after we cross our 30.

But it happens only when you take your best care when you are in your 20s. All the guys who get into party culture pretty early in their life when they are into their teen age or in their 20s, they fail to see their prime. They just never enter into the frame which makes them shine.

Years are long but Decades are short. If you won't be able to excel yourself with time, how quickly you will be left behind you won't even know. You will yourself be shocked to see yourself and your life.

If you fail in realising the importance of good habits early in your life and fail in building yourself into something you will never be able to see your prime. In fact You will start feeling old pretty early in your life.

You won't even be able to make eye contact with many of your own friends. If you fail to protect yourself from getting distracted by the consurism going on around you, you will fail in giving a direction to your life and It's Your habits which will define where you would be in next 10 years. 

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It's ok if you stay little friendly to them but your kids must not forget that you are their Dad. Your fear must always stay in their mind. You teach them manners, humility and discipline.

Mom's can not do it, they can not instill that sort of fear in the kids, being a Dad only you can do it.

Anytime before doing anything mischievous they must remember you that "we have a Dad and what he can do to us if we cross our boundaries here".

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There was a time when women used to touch Men's feet, that's the level of respect you need to earn when you want them to submit to you.

If you think you will act like some joker and they will submit to you, you are in some sort of illusion. Your bufooneries may make them laugh and may help you earn a little attention of them but it will never help you earn their respect and make them submit to you.

It's only your Manhood, bravery, courage and calmness which can make them respect you. You Never lose your original frame just to earn a little of their Attention. You stay different from all the clowns society is producing. You stay true to your natural masculinity.

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Jealousy and competition are two emotions which lead to desperation and You don't earn anything through desperation.

You never look at what others make or achieve. You always appreciate people for their achievements and learn lessons from them. You never try to compete others. You just compete with yourself only.

Focus on yourself, Stay calm, appreciate others success and learn.. Desperation repels. Coolness attracts. Desperation brings stress and frustrations. Coolness brings peace and opportunities.

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Always behave your age. You never change yourself to please others.

If somebody likes you he or she will accept you the way you are, if somebody doesn't he won't even if you change yourself to please them.

When you lose your authencity to please others you lose your dignity. And your dignity matters most.

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Most of the time you men are being played because you don't respect yourself enough, you don't put yourself first. When you can stop giving her attention and is ready to walk away from her, she can not treat you like trash anymore.

And it is a big surprise for any woman because she has been thinking through out that she can get any men she wants and no men can ghost them, leave them, can say No to them. Just one No can shatter all her ego and bring her to her knees.

If only you men can realize the importance of your attention, the whole thirst trap will evaporate. All those IG models will disappear, who are relying only on their body parts and skin, all those only fans kind of websites will be gone forever, in fact the whole porn industry will get on its knees.

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One of the greatest feeling any men can feel in his life is not getting a woman but rejecting a woman, saying No to a woman and walking away from a woman who is not benefitting him.

They are expecting you to chase them, expecting you to always be there. But if you can chose you over a woman specially those who are playing with you. You are going to get bigger than those women.

Her only super Power is your attention. You stop giving her your attention she becomes miniscule, she can never tease you or trouble you anymore.

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