Do you understand why relationships end?
When we develop a relationship with someone who appears attractive, wealthy, or intelligent. To bring that special one into our lives, we give it our all.
But everything made or constructed in this material world requires upkeep. similar to how a constructed house need ongoing maintenance.
Up until we develop an interest in that person's beautiful appearance, wealth, and intelligence, maintenance is OK. Once, we move on, whatever we put in, we feel depleted. It is comparable to something that is routinely stolen from us without our knowledge, at which point we start to feel constricted and try to cling on to it.
Solution:
Let the connection develop gradually. Don't rush; let it develop with the best person for us, not the best person around. It doesn't function the same as things which we buy with money or effort. Since it is a mutual love, allow it to develop naturally, much likely how a plant grows naturally.
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